Angela Brower, 37, like so many women in America, was a
victim of abuse. The Tennessee woman decided to share her physical and
emotional pain online to spread awareness about domestic violence.
Brower said she had recently broken up with her boyfriend, whom
she had been dating for six months, when she began seeing signs of physical and
verbal abuse. One day, he told Brower he was coming over to get his stuff, but
instead, he attacked her, knocking her in the face. "The orbital bone
around my eye was completely shattered and my nose was broken on both sides and
very displaced," Brower told The Huffington Post.
After
she woke up from the original blow, she found him beating her in the back of
her head. She begged him to spare her life, along with the life of her
children. After that, she decided she would never go back to him and make a
real change.
After she was released from the hospital, she decided to share her
horror story and progress with Facebook. "I want to raise awareness for women who are
afraid and ashamed of what has been done to them," she said. "They
blame themselves. I want them to know that it is not their fault."
She
said this was the second time she went back to him, but this would definitely
be the last. "I made a mistake and I took him back, and everything was OK
for a little while," she said. "If you have never been there, you
can’t understand why people go back. Women follow their heart, they love them,
they want to believe them when they say they will change, they lose their
friends and family and don’t feel like they have anyone.
According to WREG News Channel 3, Brower’s ex-boyfriend
has been charged with aggravated assault and is being held on a $20,000 bond.
Brower also started aGofundme
page to help her pay for her hospital expenses. So far, the fundraiser
has raised more than $11,000.
"I have health insurance, but it only covers half the
costs," she said. "I don’t want to lose everything I have because I
fell in love with the wrong person."
According to the National Coalition Against Domestic Violence, every nine
seconds in the U.S. a woman is assaulted or beaten. And an estimated 1.3
million women are victims of physical assault by an intimate partner each year.

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